In this post, I am going to discuss the advantages and disadvantages of incall and outcall appointment. But first, before we go into digging and discussing the advantages and disadvantages of different booking type, I would like to take a short time in the beginning and explain, what the incall and outcall mean actually for clients who are booking an escort.

These two terms are perhaps quite familiar for you if you have already booked an escort. The meaning of incall and outcall is quite simple, actually. Both words come from the actual type of service provider – “callboy/callgirl,” or in other words – “escort boy” or “escort girl.” We like to say mostly just “escort” as it makes it more simple and easier to understand who we are.

So when you book an escort, most likely (if not specified otherwise), escorts are asking from you the question: “do you wish to book me for incall or outcall?” Or clients who are more experienced with escorts may often ask: “how much is incall or outcall?” These are the meanings of the definition of the place where the requested service escort boy or lady is providing. Incall simply means that escort services are provided in an escort boy or lady place or apartment. And outcall means that requested service is provided in the client place (whether it is a hotel, home or an apartment). Outcall can also mean more than just providing service in the physical, private apartment. For instance, outcall can sometimes mean a dinner date with the client in a restaurant or companionship at the venue.

For me was at the beginning of the escort job quite confusing to understand the meaning of the terms and the difference. If you google “incall” or “outcall,” you can get actually quite a good definition that makes sense. Especially for those who are not so experienced with the escorts. Sometimes we just ask questions like “do you want me to come to your place or in my place?” which makes a lot more sense and easier to understand. To say outcall or incall is less formal and more natural to ask.

So in short: When ordering an escort, and they come to you, it’s called an outcall. When you go to them, it’s an incall.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of INCALL?

For us, as escorts, INCALL is the most more comfortable solution for many reasons. Most escorts apparently cannot, or they don't want to host, so they do only outcalls. Incall is also a solution for the clients, who cannot make an effort to invite escorts to their home.

Escorts are most likely inviting clients to their home

Escorts who can do incall, have more flexibility, but they also have more responsibility. And that's because they are most likely inviting clients to their home, where they sleep, eat, and having their meaningful time. Although that escorts who are welcoming to their home will also take a responsibility that their personal things would be untouched by the clients and their neighbors won't see what you are doing.

Inviting the client to your home is something special, of course. This is your home, where you feel probably safe and well. You have full control of your area, and you can make sure that there are no "hidden" surprises next room. For us, as escorts, it is the most convenient way to provide services and for clients, in most cases the cheapest form of receiving service from the escort. By doing incall service, we save time example for transportation that will reduce the risk to get late to the appointment. So in most cases for incall, we can be almost always on time.

Incall saves money

But on the other hand, for clients, it means that they have to take off the time to come and leave from their comfort zone. They can save money, but the effect of incall is not the same, especially if the client is not in a good health condition and not appropriately dressed according to the weather. Incalls for clients is excellent in summer, but not in winter or fall, when weather is cold and windy, rainy, or snowy. Incall could be a good reason for clients who cannot afford to invite escorts to their place for different reasons. So they can keep themselves discreet against their family, roommate, neighbors, or anyone else who would catch the attention.

At the end of the day, INCALL can be for escorts also overwhelming, especially if there are many clients in one day. The cleaning and tidying the house is all that we have to do after our clients. Especially after overnight, because we don't want to sleep or provide the same sheets and towels for the next clients and therefore we need to take care of the cleaning as often as we have clients over.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of OUTCALL?

As I've pointed out already in my previous article about the advantages and disadvantages for INCALL, now is the time to discuss, is outcall a better solution? Well, outcall is considered an exclusive service nowadays, because it contains the two parts: traveling time to the client and the actual service time in the client place. Most likely clients who have no apartment and they are visiting, are calling the escort to their hotel. So far, my experience says that most of my clients prefer outcall rather than incall. My incall clients are mostly family fathers or clients who are living with their girlfriend, and they secretly have fantasies to have fun with the boy.

Why we charge more for the outcall?

Outcall clients have their privilege to not move outside from their comfort zone, which for us, of course, makes more effort and that means - more charges that are passed to our clients. The outcall is a more expensive solution for clients if it comes that they request an escort to go to their place. Most likely escorts like me, they charge more from the clients for outcalls. And that makes sense, actually. One of my tweets on Twitter I have explained briefly, why most escorts (including me) are they charge more from the clients for outcall:

Providing outcall service is a privilege for you. About 70% people prefer outcall service because for them it’s easier to book escort to their home or hotel rather then taking effort to find my place.

— Rihard 4You 🔥💎 (@yourtwinklover) August 23, 2019

As my Twitter post explains well what means us to come to client place, there you can understand that outcall for escorts needs motivation that comes from more than one reason: travel time, transportation expenses, and lastly but not least - the motivation for going out, even if the weather is not so good.

Going to the client is an individual and separate service

I remember a discussion with my one potential client, early in this year. We spoke about how disappointed he is because I charge more for the outcall. He argued that people are not getting paid for the travel time when they go to work. I've explained him gently and politely, that any client-related activities (starting from traveling to client till getting back to home), takes for me time. And time is money because going to the client is an individual service, which I would use for something else and instead. Also, let's be honest: going to the client requires me to do more preparations (such as, but not limited: packing my bag, planning my route and making sure that my apartment windows are closed and all machines such as laundry and dishwasher are off). Such preparations I could cut off when I do incall dates. Also going to the client place is a more risky activity, especially for women escorts. Because they are going to the place where they probably never been. There can be some "surprises," or they may not feel comfortable like they are back in their home.

Now if we think logically, why we, as escorts should make our life more difficult by taking extra effort to reach client for free instead of inviting them for the incall? No matter who is coming to your place - it is your doctor, lawyer, notary or whoever, they charge more instead if you go to their office (unless you need to call emergency).

But of course, outcall also has positive sides besides the fact that we escort take more efforts to reach clients. For us, if the weather is not so bad, outcall can give us a reason to go out, unwind ourselves, move a little bit (which is good for health), and not mentioning that brings us some extra money for the service.

The conclusion

Every type of booking, as described, have their good and bad sides. Just like with most of the situations in our life. I've been working as an escort since January 2018, and I had so far luckily no problems with the incalls or outcall type of appointments. But be aware, if you are women, it is safer to do incalls rather than outcalls in my opinion. Incalls can give you more comfort and flexibility but may require more responsibility and work afterward. Outcall is the best solution for the escort on the financial side, but worse for clients worse if it comes to the money. Outcalls are suitable for escorts who do not have a hectic schedule and can take time off for reaching their clients.

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